Big Reputation, Big Reputation
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Let’s get one thing straight:

Having a conviction doesn’t make you disposable.

It doesn’t mean you’re dangerous, untrustworthy, or broken, and it definitely doesn’t mean you have to live forever in the shadow of your worst mistake. I unpack this concept in my Resilience Education Reentry Review article here.

You 100% have value.

But I won’t lie to you, rebuilding your reputation after a conviction takes grit, strategy, and a system-defying level of self-belief. In a society that’s quick to judge and way too slow to forgive, it’s not just about proving you’ve changed; it’s about demanding that people see your full story.

Here’s how to start.

You Own Your Story, Not The Other Way Around

You don’t owe anyone access to your trauma, and you don’t have to sing for your supper. However, transparency can be powerful when you’re in control of the narrative.

Craft a short, confident explanation of your past; no rambling, no apology era tour. Focus on what you’ve learned, what you’ve done since, and who you are now. When people see you leading with clarity and confidence, it disrupts their assumptions.

Try this:

“I had a felony conviction from years ago. It was a turning point in my life. Since then, I’ve completed X, contributed to Y, and I’m proud of the person I’ve become.”

Build Receipts of Change

Reputation rehab isn’t just PR; it’s action. So stack your wins. Keep receipts.

  • Volunteer in your community
  • Join advocacy groups or restorative justice efforts
  • Earn new certifications or take classes (even free ones online)
  • Show up consistently: at work, in relationships, in your goals

Every step you take reinforces your growth. People may question your past, but they can’t argue with your present.

Control Your Digital Footprint

Google is ruthless. But you can fight back.

These are the exact same tricks of the trade that fancy pants reputation management firms use, and I’m about to give it to you for free.

  • Create positive content: a blog, a LinkedIn profile, public speaking, or volunteer photos
  • Claim your name on social platforms to bury old links (especially Instagram, as Google is going to index it!)
  • Ask friends or supporters to tag you in current accomplishments

Pro Tip: Ask Google to remove outdated mugshots or arrest data using their removal request form.

Find the Right People, Not Just Any People

Not everyone deserves access to your comeback story.

  • Surround yourself with people who see your worth, not your record
  • Seek out mentors, coworkers, and allies who’ve walked this road
  • Be cautious with relationships that constantly remind you of who you were, not who you are

Turn Stigma Into Strength

The same system that tried to define you will never teach others how to understand you.

But you can.

Many formerly incarcerated people go on to become:

  • Entrepreneurs, like Noah Asher
  • Fearless Advocates, like William Perry
  • Criminologists like Dr. Adam Kinzel
  • Program Innovators like Jessica Snow
  • Legal Professionals like Tyler Foster
  • Tech Innovators like Steven Johnson and Nolan Adams

Why? Because you know what’s broken. And that insight is powerful.

You’re Not Alone and You’re Not a Headline

Always remember – If YOU are willing to change, your past is just a bruise, not a tattoo. It will heal.

W. Steven Mannear, JD

The world may be slow to forget your conviction, but you don’t have to wait for permission to move forward.

Rehabilitating your reputation isn’t about erasing your past; it’s about owning your evolution.