I recently heard from multiple sources about an attorney who engaged in misconduct, and then threatened individuals if they ever came forward. Individuals claimed they knew for years he was unethical, but he “always seemed to get away with it.” He eventually lost his ability to practice, but it took decades to address it.
Lawyers are sworn to uphold justice, not manipulate it. But what happens when the person threatening you with exposure, ruin, or silence is the same person licensed to practice law? Blackmail by an attorney is not just unethical; it’s criminal. And if it’s happening to you, you have options.
If we don’t speak up about abuse of power, it continues. Want to take your power back? Here’s how.
Understanding Legal Blackmail: Abuse of Power in Plain Sight
Blackmail involves threats used to coerce someone into giving up money, silence, or action. When a lawyer uses their position, past legal knowledge, or access to confidential information to intimidate or control you, it crosses from questionable to criminal.
Common tactics include:
- Threatening to release sensitive information
- Coercing you into dropping a legal claim
- Demanding money or services in exchange for silence
- Using attorney-client privileged information against you
Note: Insinuation, notice language, and implied consequences can also come along for the ride. However, not all coercive legal behavior meets the definition of blackmail but much of it relies on the same dynamics of fear, imbalance, and implied consequence.
Step 1: Preserve the Evidence
Don’t panic, but do act quickly. Save and back up every form of communication:
- Emails and texts
- Call logs and voicemails
- Social media messages
- Legal documents or contracts that may be referenced
Avoid deleting anything, even if it’s embarrassing. It could be critical in showing you were coerced or targeted.
Step 2: Report the Crime
Blackmail is illegal in every U.S. jurisdiction. Report it to:
- Local law enforcement State
- Attorney General (especially for complex or public corruption cases)
- FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center (IC3) if threats came digitally or across state lines (https://www.ic3.gov)
Be clear in your report: the person blackmailing you is an attorney acting outside legal ethics and criminal law.
Step 3: File a Complaint with the State Bar or Grievance Commission
Every state has a disciplinary board that oversees attorney conduct. You can—and should—file a formal complaint.
Use this directory to find your state’s process.
Include your evidence and a detailed timeline. This can result in disbarment, suspension, or sanctions against the lawyer.
Step 4: Get Legal Help—But the Right Kind
If you’re being blackmailed by a lawyer, don’t go it alone. You need an advocate who can protect your rights and guide you safely through the process.
Look for:
- Civil rights attorneys
- Criminal defense lawyers (if you’re being falsely accused of anything)
- Legal aid organizations or pro bono support if money is an issue
- Consider a service like LegalShield
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Know That You’re Not Alone
Being blackmailed by someone in a position of power is terrifying. But silence only serves the person trying to control you.
You deserve safety, justice, and accountability.
